Pose
integrity questions toward the end of the interview, after you
have worked to establish an
easy rapport
with the candidate.
If you hear an unethical answer, offer a response
that conveys empathy and understanding — but
no acceptance — to
keep the applicant talking. Was the action a
one-time lapse the candidate is admitting to
out of lingering
guilt and embarrassment?
Or was it part of a pattern of deceit? The answer
will help you determine whether the candidate
is worth a second look.
Adapted
from “Can
You Interview for Integrity?” in
Across the Board
| Quiz:
How Ethical are You? |
If
asked, most of us would probably say we’re upstanding,
ethical folks. But someone on the outside looking in
at our behavior might have a different perspective. Get
a sense of how you and your staff rate on the ethics
scale by taking the following quiz. Score 1 point for
every yes answer, nothing for a no. And if you feel inclined
to fudge on your responses — well, that tells you
all you need to know, doesn’t it?
- Do
you think it’s acceptable for people to exaggerate
their abilities, education, or work experience on
a resume or during a job interview?
- Have
you ever padded your expense account?
- Do
you think it’s
okay to come in a few minutes late or take a long
lunch if you make up the time later?
- Would
you accept a date with someone you didn’t
find attractive solely to further your career?
- Have
you ever kept silent and implied agreement with racist,
sexist, or other offensive remarks because
you feared alienating a boss, client,
or coworker?
- Would
you shop online or surf porn at work if you knew you
would not get caught?
- Would
you turn a blind eye if you suspected your boss was
stealing from the company?
- If
you had to choose between two job candidates — a
friend or a stranger — would
you give more weight to the friend’s application even
if the stranger were more qualified?
- Have
you ever taken office supplies such as pens, legal
pads, or binder clips for personal
use?
- Have
you ever promised a delivery date you knew you could
not make?
- Would
you protect your job rather than blowing the whistle
on potential safety problems?
- Would
you keep quiet and make the sale even if you knew a
customer could find
an item cheaper somewhere
else?
Check
your score and learn more about how to view these sticky
situations by visiting the Motivational Manager Web site
at www.managementresources.com/mm.
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| Adapted
from “Career Pros: A Question of Ethics” by
Carole Kanchier, in the California Job Journal |
Staff
Matters
Cantaloupe and Green Bananas: Humor as Communication
By Stephen
O’Connor
My
dad was a man who appreciated the richness that a sense of
humor could
add to an otherwise
tedious
life.
His humor
was either
self-effacing
or intelligently clever,
but never hurtful. He was also a humble poet
and only recently
did
the family
see some
of
the poems
he had written over the course
of a lifetime. Some are sad, some
are poignant and one in particular
is a great example of his
ability to combine wit and an economy
of language:
Love
In The Garden
The Watermelon was so fond
Of the melon, musk
And lay in awe of its beauty
All from dawn to dusk
Honey come and say you love me
You know I love you too
Though I lay impotent here
Oh tell me, Honeydew
And I know we Cantaloupe
Because I cannot rise
Lettuce whisper here together
And brush away the flies
–
Aloysius R. O’Connor
He
was a man who knew how to use humor carefully and without malice.
This is also a
quality of a good manager. In a recent article titled
Workplace Humor is
Valued but It has Its
Place, which appeared in the Newark, NJ,
Star-Ledger, Julie
Ciamporcero
suggests
some guidelines for the
appropriate level
of humor on the job.
Don’t
forward funny e-mail at work — Sure, that
list of “Top Ten Excuses for Falling
Asleep at Work” may
be funny, but forwarding
it to your coworkers or boss can look
as if you’re wasting
time.
When
in doubt, apologize — When a joke seems to
offend someone, don’t waste time
arguing about it. Your safest course
of action is to apologize at once.
Explain that you didn’t
mean to cause any
harm.
Strive
for wit, not wisecracks — Concentrate
on humor that doesn’t demean
people. Show a willingness to laugh
at your own mistakes.
Al
O’Connor was an accountant
for 35 years at Consumers Power
Company in Jackson, before retiring
in 1971.
He never got into
management, although
he would have made a wonderful
manager. His combination of wit,
humility
and a staunch allegiance to a set
of non-negotiable
values would have served him well
as a leader.
I know it has
served me well as his son. Another
one of
dad’s
poems has to
do with the workplace and demonstrates
his ability
to chide his
coworkers
in a good-natured
fashion. One year, as he was preparing
to go on vacation,
he
wrote a parting
poem to his fellow employees.
A
Parting Shot
When
I relax on nature’s
bosom
I will think
of you
And while you
sweat among
your ciphers
I’ll
apostrophize
the dew
And revel in
the scintillating
light
Of the rising
sun
You’ll
be trudging,
weary, to your
work
I’ll
be having fun
With Diana
I’ll
walk the forest
And linger
in the dark
While in a
dusty, noisy
office
Your sweating
rear will park
–
Aloysius R. O’Connor
My
dad understood that humor is the antidote for self-pity.
As ALS ravaged
his body, it could not touch his love or his humor.
I called
him one day and asked how he was doing. He replied, “Well,
I’m
not buying
any
green bananas.” I
didn’t
know if I
should laugh
or cry.
So I did
both. He
was truly
the “master
of his fate,
the captain
of his soul” (Invictus: William
Ernst Henley).
He died
on
Jan.
26, 2000.
He would
have
been 94
this year.
I’ll
miss you,
Papa.
This
article originally appeared in the September/October 2000 issue
of Michigan Health & Hospitals magazine and is being used with permission.
Good
Advice
for Newer
Employees
Speaking
of
ethical behavior
and “doing
the right
thing” in
the workplace,
here’s
some
good
advice
for your
newer
employees
(or for
one of
your
kids
just
starting
out in
the work
world)...
If
you
gather
100
experienced
managers
together
and
asked
for
their
advice,
they
probably
wouldn’t
say
much
about “competing
values
models” or “temporal
rhythms.”
Instead,
this
is
a
good idea
of
what
you’d
hear:
“Don’t be afraid of the phrase, ‘I don’t know.’” If
you
don’t know the answer, don’t try to bluff. If you’re
at
fault, take the blame. If you’re wrong, apologize. A wise
person
once said, “If
you
always tell
the
truth, you never
have
to
remember anything.”
“Never
gossip.” And if someone wants to gossip with you, politely
say you’re not interested. This corporate adage rings true:
When someone gossips, two careers are hurt — the
person being
talked about,
and the person
doing the talking.
“No
task is beneath you.” Don’t think you are above
anything. Be the good example and pitch in — especially
if the job is
one that nobody
wants to do.
“Share
the credit whenever possible.” Managers who spread
credit around look much stronger than those who take all the credit
themselves.
“Ask
for help.” If you think you’re in over your head,
you are. Before it gets out of hand, ask someone for help — most
people enjoy giving a hand. Besides saving yourself from embarrassment, you’ll
make a friend
and an ally.
“Keep
your salary to yourself.” Discussing salary is a no-win
proposition. Either you’ll
be upset because
someone is making
more than
you , or
someone will
be upset with
you.
“When you don’t like someone, don’t
let it show.” Especially
if you outrank them. Never burn bridges or offend others as you move
ahead.
“Let
it go.” What shouldn’t happen often does: You weren’t
given the project you wanted, you were passed over for the promotion you deserved.
Be gracious and diplomatic ... and move on. Harboring
a grudge won’t
advance your
career.
“When
you’re right, don’t gloat.” The only time
you should ever use the phrase “I told you so” is
if
someone says to you: “You
were right.
I really could
succeed at that
project.”
Source:
The Manager’s
Intelligence Report
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Health
Care Management Recruiting
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Steven
O' Connor, SPHR
Senior Director
6215 West St. Joseph Highway Lansing, Michigan 48917
(517) 663-5755
Fax: (517) 663-5897
E-mail: soconnor@mha.org
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MHA Account Managers
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Roseville, CA 95661
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