by
Stephen O'Connor
Our
world is replete with signs. We have signs to tell us how fast
to drive, where the nearest hospital is,
where you can buy every
manner of food and a whole bunch of signs telling us what not
to do.
Here are some actual signs whose unintended messages are
downright hilarious.
Retail
store: We’ll
gladly replace any defective merchandise with an item of equal
value.
Card
shop: “I love you” Valentine’s
Day cards now available in multipacks.
Southern
California convent: Absolutely
no trespassing. Violators will be prosecuted. Signed, The Sisters
of Mercy.
Produce
Department: Please
do not fondle the fruit. Wait for the clerk.
There
seems to be a sign for everything except the single most important
thing most of us will ever have to find. At some point in each
of our lives we have had to ask ourselves that terrifying question, “What
career is best for me?” or “What do I want to do for
a living?” or just “What do I want?”
On
the face of it, these shouldn’t be such difficult questions.
Everybody should know what they want, right? Fact is, most people
know what they don’t want but have a difficult time deciding
what kind of work or career is a good fit for their personality
and skills. So where does a person start? Do you take some tests?
Do you ask your uncle Frank? How about your mom? She knows you
better than anyone, right?
In
their book, Do What You Are, Paul and Barbara Tieger provide
a pearl of wisdom, “Figure out what you’re good at
and exploit it in the service of others.” It’s the
second half of that phrase that contains the clue: “in the
service of others.” As someone once said, “The purpose
of life is to discover your talents and the meaning of life is
to give them away.”
There
is something very absolute about the universal truth that whatever
you give away, you get back. It’s life’s beautiful
paradox. You get what you give: friendship, love, respect, anything
you choose, often tenfold. The world is a mirror, not a brick wall.
Service to others is where the meaning of a life and a career are
discovered. It is also the bedrock of the free marketplace. When
you get out of yourself and provide service to others, you find
meaning and often a career. Besides, using your talents only for
yourself is like kissing your sister — what’s the point?
Ron
Pendell, vice president at Right Management Consultants in Southfield,
identifies the five “Core Business Drivers” in any
organization — customer service, cost/pricing, infrastructure,
quality, business development.
If
a person can discover what they are good at, what their talents
are, and wrap them around one or more of the core business drivers
to provide service to others, then they’ve discovered their
career. Identify what motivates, excites or inspires you and use
that to apply your talents in the service of others. Too bad this
won’t fit on a sign somewhere.
This article originally
appeared in Michigan Health & Hospitals magazine
and is being used with permission.
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