by
Stephen O'Connor
Earlier
in my career, I was a vocational rehabilitation counselor. My
job was to
coordinate employment and training programs for physically disabled adults.
I remember one young man in particular named Brian. He had experienced the traumatic
loss
of his right arm (via a shotgun) in a botched suicide attempt.
His emotional problems had now produced a physical handicap.
We purchased an upper extremity prosthesis for him, helped him finish high school,
placed him in a job and went on to the next client.
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Tips
for Exit Interviews:
- Use
a checklist that includes documents requiring signatures,
company property to be returned, questions to ask.
- Anticipate
the types of questions that will be asked such as is
the employee eligible to receive a retirement benefit?
- Bring
appropriate benefit plan documents including COBRA
notices and benefit plan documents.
- Tell
the employee all questions should be submitted in writing
directly to the appropriate person. Answers given verbally
should be recorded in writing at the time of the interview
and saved in the employee’s file.
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Years
later I was traveling north with friends. It was late and
we stopped at a rough looking tavern where we could get pizza take
out. There
was a sign taped to the mirror behind the bar that read, “No
fist fighting allowed.” Our objective was to stay alive
until the pizza was ready. We sat down and waited. I became
aware that
this very large man was glaring at me. I tried not to look
at him but the more I did, the more interested he became.
He got up and
started towards us. He approached, sat down and brought his
arm to rest, with a thud, on the table. Thrusting out of
an empty sleeve,
pointed directly at me, was a gleaming metal hook. Ooh Boy.
Now, I’m sweating bullets. I look around to my “friends” for
support and they’ve all taken a sudden interest in
the Patsy Cline selection on the Wurlitzer. At this point
he’s
so close I can smell the beef jerky on his breath. He said, “You’re
... You’re ...?” As he stuttered, I studied his
face. I watched the scruffy beard disappear, the rough crow’s
feet fade and his thinning hair thicken under a baseball
cap. There
he was, 18 again, scared and hurting. It was Brian. We recognized
each other, almost at once.
As
his look of puzzlement faced into a warm smile of recognition,
his eyes filled. “You’re Steve O’Connor aren’t
you,” he said softly. I just smiled. He waved his buddies
over to join us and began to tell the story. “If it wasn’t
for this guy, I never would have finished high school. After I
lost my arm I was really a mess. Steve hounded me to stay in school,
learn how to use this hook and give that job a chance. If it weren’t
for him, I wouldn’t be as successful as I am now.” And
he was successful — holding down a good job and able to pay
his own way. We talked until the pizza came, shook hands and we
left. I had often wondered what happened to Brian. Now I knew.
It felt good.
I
had missed the chance to “exit interview” Brian before
he drifted out of my life. Many human resource professionals miss
the same opportunity. Exit interviews are important. They can be
the catalyst for organizational improvement or, if not handled
well, the source of litigation exposure.
Robert
D. Webb, associate attorney in the Boston firm of Nutter, McClennen
and Fish offers the following
tips for conducting interviews with your departing employees: Prepare
for the interview, anticipate the types of questions that will
be asked, bring appropriate benefit plan documents to the interview,
and when you’re not absolutely certain about the answers
to an employee’s questions, don’t guess. (See sidebar
for more details.) The exit interview may be your last chance
to hook the information you need. And you never know how or where
that information will come back to you-or how many years it could
take off your life!
This
article originally appeared in the May/June 2001 issue of Michigan
Health & Hospitals magazine and is being used with
permission.
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